Questions Answered: Should I date my co-worker?

Question: I’m interning at my dream company for the fall and spring semesters. Things have been going really well, but here’s my question. There’s a guy in my department that I’m really into. He is definitely interested in me, too. He is a full time, regular employee. I asked around and there doesn’t seem to be any policy against dating. Would dating him ruin my chances of getting a full time offer at this company? – Lyanne, Lubbock, TX

Answer: First, congratulations on landing an internship at your dream company. Any time we try to mix our work and personal lives, things can get a bit tricky. The first thing I would suggest is getting in touch with your Human Resources department to get confirmation that a dating policy does not exist. Also find out if there’s a policy against employees dating interns, which may be considered a different situation than employees dating one another. Next, check with your school to find out if there is a college policy about interns dating co-workers. You just want to check all your bases.

There are a few other things to consider, as well:
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Resume Phrases – Admissions Office Worker

Here are a handful of resume phrases that college students or recent grads with Admission Office experience may find useful:

  • Represented university to campus visitors, including prospective students, parents, alumni and community members
  • Answered questions about ____ College and local community
  • Wrote original content for Admissions Blog, read by prospective students and parents
  • Helped set up for special visit days and Admissions events


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The Toughest Job of All – Finding a Job

Guest Author: John Feldmann is a Sourcing Analyst for Insperity Recruiting Services, specializing in employment branding and advertising.
Website: http://twitter.com/john_feldmann

Every year, thousands of new college grads emerge from academia, filled with optimism, ready to enter the next stage of their lives. But the first step is often the hardest – finding a job, or better yet, a career. The task of finding a job is a full-time job in itself, and how are you supposed to know the dos and don’ts of job hunting if you’ve never actually done it? Alright, so you worked as a lifeguard last summer, and sold jeans at The Gap during high school. But now, you’re looking for a career – a job that will support you, pay off your student loans, act as the first step to reaching your professional goals, and ideally, draw upon the knowledge and education you acquired in school.

Several years ago, long before I began working for my present employer, I went through a period of unemployment. I spent every day searching the internet job boards for positions for which I might be a good fit, and sending personalized cover letters and resumes tailored to each position. But as months went by, I got little or no response, and as my frustration grew, my standards continued to lower with regard to required qualifications and salary.

At about this same time, a close friend of mine had just graduated and was also looking for a job. Within a few weeks of searching, he was able to obtain a number of interviews and eventually a job offer. I told him about how much trouble I had been having even getting a response from my applications and resume submissions. When I asked him how he had gotten a response so quickly, he responded by asking, “How many resumes are you sending out a day?” I responded by telling him I send out three or four a day, and only for jobs for which I know I’m qualified. His response was quite surprising. “Well, there’s your problem. I send out at least 80 resumes a day.”

Recruiters are all too familiar with this practice – it’s the “spray and pray” application technique. Even if blindfolded, if you throw enough darts at a dartboard, you’re bound to hit the bullseye eventually. Now that I have been employed in the recruiting industry for several years, I know what a turn-off this method of application is for employers. In fact, I have counseled many job seekers to not submit resumes through mass e-mails, but rather to be selective. However, I can’t deny the results that my friend got from his application method. I spent several more months sending out resumes before finding work, whereas he spent those months collecting paychecks at his new job. Ultimately, the job he found was not ideal for him, but it did lead to other opportunities and served as a stepping stone to another job for which he was better suited.

The moral of the story is this – when job hunting, especially if this is your first venture into the working world, you will receive plenty of advice on what to do, and what not to do. But there is no absolute right or wrong. It is easy for those of us who are currently employed to “armchair quarterback” your job search strategy, and those of us in the recruiting industry can tell you what hiring managers and recruiters prefer to see, and what will most likely get you disqualified. But the truth is, what works for one job seeker may not work for another, and vice versa.

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Find Me a Job: How to Score a Job Before Your Friends

We have often said that the process of finding a job or an internship is a full time job! It takes time, careful research, a good support network, and a bit of good luck. To give you a bit of extra help this this holiday season, we’d like to let you know about an online job search course, “Find Me A Job: How To Score A Job Before Your Friends.” Created by Heather Huhman, a career expert, experienced hiring manager, and founder & president of Come Recommended, this course is designed to help students and recent college graduates land internships and entry-level jobs. Topics covered include:

  • What to do before your search even begins
  • How to identify your wants and needs — and find matching opportunities
  • How to submit applications that will generate responses
  • How to succeed in every type of interview — video, phone and in-person
  • How to follow up at every stage of the hiring process
  • How to handle rejection — and evaluate and accept job offers
  • How to succeed on the job once you secure a position

The course is normally $49 (and a steal at that price), but Heather has provided us with a coupon code for the holidays that will bring the fee for the course down to $24!! (The coupon is good until 11:59PM On December 25, 2012.) Here’s the coupon code link: http://www.udemy.com/find-me-a-job/?couponCode=connections. Please feel free to share the link with friends or loved ones who are looking for jobs or internships.

Sweet Careers does not receive any reward (monetary or otherwise) on the sale of this course. The link and coupon code are provided for the benefit of our readers.

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